Do People Find You Boring ? Then Follow These Tips To Be The Coolest One In You Group !!

Basically life gives you many things which are not in your control. Parents, Relatives, Religion, Caste etc. but one thing which you can have of your choice is your friend circle. In this self-made group we try to excel and be the center of attraction. So for this we need to stop being boring.

Now this article will help you out in turning your personality to stop being boring, to being sarcastic, interesting and the cool dude of your group.

Stop It

Nowadays there is an outbreak of boring people around us and we end up like being them only. Being boring not only effects your friend circle but also causes an impact on your self-confidence and self-esteem. But when you fight this you will be more attractive, catchy and affable. Now this is what I want to share today. Try these tips and end up being the hero of your group:

1. Captivate The Brain

Have you heard your friends say ” Stop being boring”. Many researches show that our brain has a very short span of attention time. It is always in search of some interesting and intriguing information. Now if you are an engaging person, then you will be able to attract many hungry toddlers waiting to be fed by entertaining nuggets.

Captivate brain

2. Turn People On

OK!!! first of all please take the shit out of your mind. We’re talking about turning people on intensely and emotionally. When you talk to the person try to make the person more emotionally attached to your conversation and this will help you in engaging him with you for more time and being less boring.

Engage people emotionally

3. Dress Well

Well it is seen that people give more attention to those who are nicely dressed as per the occasion. Also dressing sharply gives you inner confidence which will further enhance your personality and add charms.

Dress nicely

4. Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

Well most of us have observed that during social gatherings we end up repeating the same questions to people or answering in the same way. We need to get out of our comfort zone to actually start asking those questions that really matter. Try using some real conversation starters which make the difference.

Explore out of comfort zone

5. Nice Gestures Would Be Helpful Too

Using nice gestures also helps in keeping people engaged in your conversation. Try using these tips to be more approachable:

1. Heads held straight with chest up.
2. Use the mirror technique
3. Allow handshake to be the opener for you.
4. Smiling and Nodding occasionally also help.

Gestures while talking talk a lot

6. Be Interested To Be Interesting

Once a man fulfills the basic needs of Roti, Kapda aur Makaan, (Food, Clothes And Shelter) all he tries to feel valued and worthy. Once you show interest in someone, they will be interested in you soon. Always try to gain information so that there is plenty of knowledge with you to interest somebody in.

Be interested to Be Interesting

7. Be Humorous and Sensible

Always be in the limelight for good reason because no one really wants to be KRK nowadays. Use your humor and talk sensibly taking care of other’s opinion and feelings.

Humour Gets you everything

So guys if you follow these tips, you will never end up being boring. Because if you want to succeed in life you have to master the art of being boring to being awesome.

'A well tailored suit is to women, what lingerie is to men'. 

This is something we're well acquainted with. But merely donning a suit isn't enough to strike the right first impression. Improperly fitting suits may tarnish your reputation at the workplace. Even worse, it could dissuade your chances of hitting it off with your sweetheart! 

Here's how you can effortlessly pull the dapper 'corporate look', with ease:

1. The last button remains open

Always remember that the last button is there just for the style quotient and should remain unbuttoned, always. 

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2. Always unfasten the suit buttons while sitting down

Lest you want to spoil your suit!

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3.  Always button the top shirt button

Ensure that you're not choking yourself out. If yes, then it's time to invest in a new shirt.

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4. If you're wearing a dark coloured suit, a light pocket square can be visually pleasing

 And vice-versa.

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5. Never pair a sports watch with your suit

The effort to look stylish goes in vain!

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6. The shoulders of the suit should hug your shoulders

Like they say, a proper fitting suit is akin to proper fitting lingerie.

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7. Baggy trousers are a big no-no

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8. How to gauge a perfectly fitting jacket?

You should be able to just slip your hand between your chest and buttoned-up jacket

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9. An overcoat accentuates the corporate look

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10. Do not go overboard with accessories

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11. Shoes should always complement the colour of your suit

A little mix and match is okay, but refrain from having too much colour contrast.

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12. Socks should always cover your legs

Don't put people off by showing hairy legs!

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13. The tip of your tie should be at/just before the buckle of the belt

A little trial and error can sort this.

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14. Even the waistcoat should finish at the belt

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15. If you wear suspenders, don't wear belts

The purpose of suspenders or braces is to hoist your trousers up, just like a belt. Donning both would be redundant. 

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16. Shirt cuffs shouldn't go over the hands

Remember, a shirt that fits perfectly is what garners positive attention.

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17. Tie knots should be of decent size

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18. A dark coloured tie paired with a slightly lighter suit looks sharper

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19. Stitchings should always be removed

Otherwise the jacket would hang weirdly, while you're walking.

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20. The tie-bar should not be wider than the tie

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21. Suit fabric should depend on how frequently you wear it

Go for more durable fabrics for everyday wear.

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22. There shouldn't be any gap between the shirt's collar and the suit

Those are signs of an ill-fitting jacket.

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23. If you're going all corporate, opt for a double-button jacket with a notched lapel

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24. The top button of a two-button/middle button of a three-button should fall at or above the navel

Remember this thumb rule!

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25. The bottom button of the vest must always be unbuttoned too

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26. The suit jacket should be long enough to cover the zipper of your trousers

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27. Wear something underneath the shirt if your sweat-glands get activated too easily

But ensure that it isn't seen. That would malign your suited-up look!

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28. Opt for thin lapels for a more modern look. Those who prefer the old school look can opt for the thick ones

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Go ahead, flaunt that look with panache!

Can't fall asleep by 11 and cannot ever get up at 8? Feel more active once the sun goes down and super-drowsy at 10 in the morning? That is the bane of all us night owls who thrive at night and snore away during daylight. Well, the early birds with their morning bursts of energy and their clockwork routine will never understand the awesomeness of the nocturnal life. Here are 7 reasons why it is awesome.

1. No Constant Interference

Whether you are working, studying or just trying to watch something on your computer - doing it during the day means having to deal with interruptions in the form of people, calls, texts and life, in general. When you're the only night owl in the house - there's nothing to disturb your solitude. And that is the biggest reason for night owl converts!

2. The Peaceful Quiet

Again, the background noise of endless activity around you like cars passing by, people talking and whatnot becomes completely muted at night - so much so you can hear a pin drop. If that is not the perfect atmosphere to work or chill, we don't know what is. On the flipside, you too have to be super-careful in maintaining that quiet and not awaken the sleeping with clangs and bangs yourself.

3. The Darker, The Better

In a way, night owls are like harmless vampires who loathe the sight of the sun. Even during day, they'd prefer drawing all the curtains and keeping the light out by any possible means - so when it gets darker, the night owls get more excited! Just the bed, the laptop and lights out ... awesome.

4. Nothing Like Midnight Snacks

Take a night owl and add a well-stocked kitchen/fridge - and you get the happiest person on earth. Unlike your typical early bird's breakfast-lunch-dinner, there's afternoon breakfast, night lunch and midnight snacks! The creativity that goes into it is laudable - leftover sandwiches, Nutella dishes and what not.

5. Brain Works Best When It's Late Night

Research shows that while early birds' attention span tends to dwindle as the day progresses, night owls remain active for a longer period through the night. If you are a night owl, you will certainly get more work done and with better concentration once the world has done to sleep.

6. Night Owls Are More Intelligent

Studies have already proved beyond a doubt that night owls tend to be more intelligent and creative than others, so great news there! No wonder all the famous creative people were night owls - Charles Bukowski, Bob Dylan, J.R.R. Tolkien and even... ahem, Hitler.

7. Interacting With Humans Is Minimum

If you are generally awkward around human company and would rather socialize with them as less as possible, there's nothing better you can do than become a night owl. Not only will you not have to see them during the night - because everyone's asleep, you can avoid them even during the day - because you're asleep! Could it get any better, really?