Do People Find You Boring ? Then Follow These Tips To Be The Coolest One In You Group !!
Basically life gives you many things which are not in your control. Parents, Relatives, Religion, Caste etc. but one thing which you can have of your choice is your friend circle. In this self-made group we try to excel and be the center of attraction. So for this we need to stop being boring.
Now this article will help you out in turning your personality to stop being boring, to being sarcastic, interesting and the cool dude of your group.
Nowadays there is an outbreak of boring people around us and we end up like being them only. Being boring not only effects your friend circle but also causes an impact on your self-confidence and self-esteem. But when you fight this you will be more attractive, catchy and affable. Now this is what I want to share today. Try these tips and end up being the hero of your group:
1. Captivate The Brain
Have you heard your friends say ” Stop being boring”. Many researches show that our brain has a very short span of attention time. It is always in search of some interesting and intriguing information. Now if you are an engaging person, then you will be able to attract many hungry toddlers waiting to be fed by entertaining nuggets.
2. Turn People On
OK!!! first of all please take the shit out of your mind. We’re talking about turning people on intensely and emotionally. When you talk to the person try to make the person more emotionally attached to your conversation and this will help you in engaging him with you for more time and being less boring.
3. Dress Well
Well it is seen that people give more attention to those who are nicely dressed as per the occasion. Also dressing sharply gives you inner confidence which will further enhance your personality and add charms.
4. Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
Well most of us have observed that during social gatherings we end up repeating the same questions to people or answering in the same way. We need to get out of our comfort zone to actually start asking those questions that really matter. Try using some real conversation starters which make the difference.
Explore out of comfort zone
5. Nice Gestures Would Be Helpful Too
Using nice gestures also helps in keeping people engaged in your conversation. Try using these tips to be more approachable:
- Heads held straight with chest up.
- Use the mirror technique
- Allow handshake to be the opener for you.
- Smiling and Nodding occasionally also help.
6. Be Interested To Be Interesting
Once a man fulfills the basic needs of Roti, Kapda aur Makaan, (Food, Clothes And Shelter) all he tries to feel valued and worthy. Once you show interest in someone, they will be interested in you soon. Always try to gain information so that there is plenty of knowledge with you to interest somebody in.
7. Be Humorous and Sensible
Always be in the limelight for good reason because no one really wants to be KRK nowadays. Use your humor and talk sensibly taking care of other’s opinion and feelings.
So guys if you follow these tips, you will never end up being boring. Because if you want to succeed in life you have to master the art of being boring to being awesome.
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