You must have seen a lot of couples parting ways instead of choosing a long distance relationship. Well, distance sucks, and it takes a lot of hard work to maintain a great bond when thousands of miles start separating the two of you. But in my opinion, long distance relationships are a blessing in disguise as the positives that come with it more than makeup for the negatives.
And as one must always look at the glass as being half full, here are seven reasons that will actually make you look forward to getting in a long distance relationship.
Well specially this post is for my love "Deepika" AKA "Dips" <3
1.) You’ll be able to know whether he/she really loves you.
If you want to know whether the bond between the two of you is eternal or just sexual, you need to create a little distance and look at the outcomes. When you end up successfully strengthening that bond the two of you share despite staying apart, you really are in love.
2.) A great opportunity for testing the trust you both share.
When you are miles away from each other, your relationship is based merely on trust. And since trust is the foundation of every relationship, getting into a long distance one proves to the perfect barometer for testing that. Though you may be jealous when he /she is in a different city and goes on an outing with his/her new friends, all you need to do is believe in your love and the two of you shall pass this test.
3.) There will be no space for boredom.
When all you get is an hour or so at night to talk and share your feelings, there is hardly any space for boredom. This also means that you are less likely to fight over stupid issues, and yes, your life rids itself of unwarranted drama.
4.) You’re bound to experience more surprises.
Do you remember the flowers your boyfriend sent you on the first day of your new job? And the surprise visit by your girlfriend on Christmas? Well, such surprises are just what you need to make your long distance relationship the most amazing experience of your life.
5.) You will understand the value of being together.
Usually, couples miss the essence of togetherness when they are around each other most of the time. But when they are miles away, they miss being together. Also, when you meet each other after months or years of staying apart, you start cherishing and valuing each other more.
6.) You’re going to become a more patient person.
When you call him regularly and he doesn’t pick up or when you wait till late night just so she could complete her chores, it makes you both more patient. Well, if you could wait for hours just to talk to them on the phone, patience is bound to become one of your virtues.
7.) You’ll have a lot more time for yourself.
Needless to say but when you both live in the same city, all your free time gets planned for each other. When living in different cities, you get more time for yourself, thereby making you more independent and confident.
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